Between Daddy and Daddy 8

BETWEEN DADDY AND DADDY

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While in the conference, I dedicated the program to praying for my husband. He must be delivered in Jesus name!!

In the program, I was mummy GO’s errand girl. Even in the middle of praise and worship, intensive prayer session and sermon, she’d tap me to either go and buy something for her, take her call, go and bring something she forgot from her room or carry her bag.

“I see you have a PA now ma’am” one of the pastors wives that came from the east asked her.

“No… She’s just a humble daughter of Zion who God called into ministry” mummy answered.

“I see… She’s hard working” the woman said

“Yes she is. And I am standing in the gap praying for her. She will be exalted beyond her expectations”

“Amen. Child of God let me pray with you” the pastor’s wife said. We held hand and she prayed for a while.

Sometimes, the voice of the flesh in me will begin to question why I’d come all the way from Lagos just to run errands for my fellow woman. Someone I am way more educated than. Sometimes, I miss out of prayer sessions, praise and worship and even on the word where i was running up and down for her.

But the spirit of God in me will always shut the voice of the flesh up. Reminding me that the ways of God are not the ways of man. Before you become a leader you must serve. Believe in the lord your God, so you shall be established; believe in his prophets so you shall prosper. 2chronicles 20:20. I was sure that mummy GO is doing even much more for me spiritually. I encouraged myself never to doubt her but to do as she and Daddy GO says so that my spiritual growth and blessings will be permanent.

In all that 6days we spent in Abuja, Bidemi didn’t call me and I had no time to even call him.

I didn’t get a word from anyone from home. But, I was sure they are fine. Afterall, I’m praying for them.

Eka was doing really well. I loved how neat the entire house was and how healthy and happy Anu looked. But Eka is a staunch sinner, how can she be this attentive, sensitive and dedicated, I thought.

Eka served me one of her delicacies and I could hardly believed it was cooked by a human. God, no wonder Bidemi didn’t even border to give me a beep. I thanked Eka and prayed for her.

I wanted to do a simple prayer for Eka for the forgiveness of her many sins, when the holy spirit overtook me and I fell under the anointing. I started prophesying and blasting in tongues, I didn’t know I had taking hours already, until Bidemi walked in.

“What sort of madness is going on here?” He thundered.

“Good evening Bidemi” I greeted.

“Ehen…. So is hugging your husband after not seeing him for a long time also a sin?” He asked spreading his arms in the air for me.

“No, it’s not. But you saw I was praying for Eka right? Must you interrupt us?”

“Eka, go to your room. But let me warn you, any day I see you leave your work for stupid prayers I will sack you… Do you understand?” Eka nodded and hurried out.

“What is the meaning of that?”

“We’ve been happy and in peace, we’ve enjoyed some fresh air and quietness around here. Please can you no ruin it for us?”

“What did you just say Bidemi? So you mean I am the negative air around this house?” He ignored me and went to drop his bag.

“Bidemi, I thought I said enough prayers for the evil spirits in you to leave you alone. But seems like they have infiltrated your blood. You need the blood of Jesus to be free” I began to plead the blood of Jesus on his behalf while following him around.

He took a quick shower and before he was out, Eka had set the table for three. Bidemi, herself and Anu. I didn’t even know that Eka eats on same table with my husband at the same time.

“Eka, how dare you sit on same table with my husband to eat as if you’re his wife” I thundered angrily.

“Sorry madam” she said as she began to pack up her plates

“Eka, sit down, eat your food and feed Anu”

I was shocked. Meanwhile, Eka was hanging on the air as she shifts gaze between I and Bidemi, fear written all over her

“Sit down and feed my daughter, I said!” Bidemi screamed loudly for the first time since I had married him.

Eka sat down and shifted Anu’s sit close her. As she makes to feed my daughter with the first ball of eba I rushed her and held her hand from entering Anu’s mouth.

“You can’t feed my daughter this nonsense. She doesn’t like swallow, what happens to tea, cereals, plantain and Amala? Those are her preferences. She doesn’t like these things”

“Well, she now does” Bidemi answered spitefully.

“Mummy I like Anty Eka soup and eba and pounded yam, and fufu and…”

“Shut up!” I screamed at my daughter and stormed out.

I began to ask God what was going on in prayer.

God I can’t be serving you every single moment and you let my home fall apart. No! I began to pray.

After prayer, I took my bath and decided to go to the backyard where we have our garden to catch fresh air and clear my head.

As I walked through the parlor and kitchen, I noticed so many changes. So many new thing had been bought. The house had been rearranged our TV and woofer set had even been changed to a much bigger and finer ones.

Approaching the garden I heard laughter. I got close and found out that it was Eka, Bidemi and Anu. Eka was telling them an ancient story. She asked them to be responding with some funny ibibio language word while she sang and told the story. They were having a swell time no doubt.

I haven’t seen Bidemi this happy in a long time and laughing so broadly. Anu too seemed happy. I felt betrayed, I felt left out. I took my sit and listened to them for a while. Sadly, they acted as if they didn’t see me come in, even Anu didn’t flinch. That hurt me so much.

“Eh…. This is pass 8 are you not going to put Anu to bed?” I asked Eka. Not because it was time to put her to bed but because I was jealous.

“Madam tomorrow is Saturday so she stays as long as she wants and plays with Daddy”

“How dare you? Is she your daughter, is he your husband, why then are you so concerned. acting all wife materially, what are you trying to prove?” I shouted angrily.

“I’m sorry madam. I don’t mean to upset you. Daddy’s girl, come let’s go to bed now, it’s late” they stood up.

“Princess come and give daddy a good night kiss” Anu ran to her Dad and kissed him goodnight.

“Good night Eka” Bidemi said to Eka.

“Good night sir. Good night ma’am” she responded, slightly bowing when she spoke to me.

“Don’t forget to tell Anu her bed time stories” Bidemi shouted.

“Sure sir” Eka’s voice came faintly from afar.

“Don’t tell my daughter those scary nonsense stories from that slum you came from and don’t ever wears this nonsense you’re wearing again in my house” I screamed at the direction she went.

“I didn’t know that repented children of God have their tongues coated with insults and their minds, shallow, insecured, and irresponsible” Bidemi said looking straight into my eyes

I was shocked. Bidemi, nomatter what I do, takes it lying down. He is a very calm man that hardly talks. You can’t catch Bidemi insulting, shouting or quarrelling with anyone, especially those around him. So, I was shocked that he even knows how to put insults together in one sentence.

“And I already know that worldly husbands are very insensitive and preoccupied with nonsense. I don’t want her wearing that thing in my house again”

“You’re in the wrong address then because the last time I checked, the church was your house. And are you expecting her to tie double wrapper and wear outdated august meeting kind of blouse like you to sleep?”

I looked away.

What she wore wasn’t so bad. But the material was light and my bible is against it. Clothes that have silk, cashmere and cotton at the same time.

“So you have these feelings still, yet you starve me sex, your presence and everything else and you still had to ruin my good times too? Jeez, you’re terrible at this repentant thing. Quit deceiving yourself” he stood to left.

“Come back here Bidemi. You’re beginning to act like the devil who have possessed you for a very long time”

“Well, maybe that’s why I can see that you’re wrinkling, ageing and diminishing because of lack of care. You look 70 and if I didn’t know you before now, I’d think you’re my grandma’s age mate. Go get a life mama” he walked away.

I didn’t know that my husband could talk that much.

He is a man who had never had bad words for anybody nomatter how hard you push him. Is it that I’ve pushed him too hard or that Eka has corrupted him or what?

I sat on the floor and cried my eyes out. Lord you said you’d give me strength to bear this persecutions and win at the end. I think this one is greater than me oooo… I wept.

In the morning; I dressed up and went to see my mummy and Daddy.

After narrating everything that’s happening in my home from day one, they went into serious prayers and blasting in tongues with me. After the prayers, Daddy saw the vision of what was wrong with my marriage.

“That your maid is a queen in river Niger. She wants to take your husband away from you” Daddy declared. I shouted. Ahhh… Worldly people are very wicked. How could Eka and Bidemi do this to me

“Daddy please help me. Please don’t let this happen” I begged my Daddy and Mummy in the lord

“Somebody say ayayahh” Daddy said his eyes closed in prayers.

“Ayayahh!” Mummy and I thundered.

“Somebody say… Daddy!!!” He said again.

“Daddy!!” We responded.

“Somebody say prrroooophhhesssyyyyy!”

“Prrroooophhhesssyyyyy!!” We shouted

Then he began to prophesy about Eka. He also sent fire to Eka and her kingdom.

I’m used to that praying pattern. That is how my daddy prays when he is in a ‘holy anger’ mood.

So I was sure that Eka will be shouting fire!! Fire!!! Wherever she may be.

“Say my father my father!”

We repeated.

“As I begin to pray… Let the fire of a fire setter be quenched in Jesus name”

We repeated and began to pray.

Somebody shooouuuuutt faaaaaayyyyaaaaa”

“Faaaaaayyyyaaaaa!!”

“As we were praying, I saw your husband fetching water from the hill and emptying it’s bucket on your maid… Ahhhhh… Zeleyababadagrabada…. Ahhhh shhhhsshhh… This means that, he will empty his blessings on that maid. He will give her all his money…. Yes sir… Yes papa… Ragadasalamamamash… Ahhh… Srubimkrubintabintatata… Tatianamatamabinta… The lord is also showing me in the spirit that your husband will buy you a bread. That bread is a bread of sorrow. Don’t eat it. He and your maid has planned evil against you. They may kill you if you’re not careful”

Ahhh… I put my hand on my head.

Are candidates of hell are very wicked. How could they plan such evil against me?. So if my Daddy in the lord did not reveal it now this is how I would have died? No wonder the bible said that the secrete things of the lord are for those who fear him and he will show them his covenant in psalm 25:14.

Daddy hears directly from God. That is why he is nicknamed, ‘God’s right hand man’

“How much is the maids salary?” Daddy asked.

“It’s 60 thousand naira papa” I responded amidst tears.

Daddy chuckled.

“He pays her 120 thousand naira. They have both been lying to you”

I couldn’t believe it.

If not that it came directly from Daddy, I would have doubted it. Bidemi, lie to me? K’osele ri.

I was very grateful to them. Tell me what I could do without my daddy in the lord.

“Why are you lying Bidemi. You think I don’t know that you’re paying her 120k and for doing what exactly?”

“I don’t know where you got that from. But you’re wrong” he said defensively

“I got it from the holy spirit. The one who sees all hearts, the one who knows every secret activities of men. He revealed it to my Daddy”

“Well that your daddy and his holy spirit are drunk, maybe they gave you some too to drink to think that I lied to you on something as trivial”

“Maybe it’s not trivial. Maybe there’s something more with this Ekaete girl that you’re not telling me”

“Yes, there’s something about her, that you’re too busy and sentimentally drawn to notice and that is the way she cares for Anu as if she were her own and the way she respects us. Something you clearly cannot do”

“Are you sleeping with Eka? Are you planning to give her all your resources and gift me a bread of sorrow?” I didn’t want him to know I already knew their plans. But, I let my emotion get the best out of me.

He laughed.

“Did the holy spirit also reveal this to you?”

“Don’t make mockery of the spirit of the living God”

He kept laughing as he opened the door to leave for work.

“I am sending Eka home”

“Do it, and see the beast in me” he shut the door at my face.

I was confused. But that single answer he gave me confirmed what daddy said. So it’s true but then, I know my husband. He isn’t a man of many words and most definitely not one to make empty threats.

What do you advice me to do?

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